PSYCHOTHERAPY IN ARIZONA & RELATIONSHIP COACHING NATIONWIDE
We were made for relationships.
That does not mean they are easy.
Individual, couples, and adult family therapy specializing in all things relationships.
Lacey K. Kelly, LCSW | Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, Complex Trauma Professional, Personality Disorder Specialist
Currently accepting a limited number of new clients.
WHO I WORK WITH
It’s okay to be human in relationships.
Individual Therapy for Relationship Patterns
You may be caught in the same relationship dynamic, exhausted from keeping the peace, recovering from a painful relationship, or trying to trust yourself again. Individual therapy is a place to understand the pattern beneath the surface and find a more grounded way forward.
Couples Therapy and Marriage Counseling
You may keep having the same fight, feel more like roommates than partners, struggle to recover after a rupture, or find that one of you pursues while the other shuts down. Couples therapy can help you understand the cycle and create a different way of being together.
Adult Family and Parent-Child Relationship Therapy
Family can make you feel fourteen again. I work with adult parents and their adult children, adult siblings, and other adult family members who want help with conflict, boundaries, estrangement, caretaking, and the patterns that are difficult to change alone.
You do not have to figure this out alone.
Finding a therapist is personal and challenging. I value your time and your story, and a good place to start is a phone call to ensure we would be a good fit together.
HI, I’M LACEY
I have spent a lot of my life looking for what was wrong with me.
Spoiler: it was not me.
If you have ever felt the same way, I think we will understand each other.
I am an Arizona Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I work with individuals, couples, and adult family members navigating complex relational patterns, trauma, attachment wounds, and the aftermath of relationships that made them doubt themselves.
I am not interested in making you more palatable to the people who have misunderstood you. I am interested in helping you understand the architecture of your inner world—what shaped it, what protects it, and what becomes possible when you are no longer at war with yourself.
MY CLINICAL APPROACH
I will help you see the pattern you are living inside.
There is usually a reason a relationship pattern feels so hard to change. My work is relational, attachment-focused, and trauma-informed, with advanced training in EMDR, NARM, parts work, somatic approaches, AEDP, EFT, narcissistic abuse and complex trauma, and personality-disorder treatment.
OTHER WAYS TO CONNECT
Coaching, Community, and Conversation
Relationship Coaching
For the moments when you want help in the relationship while it is still happening. Relationship coaching offers focused support around dating, attachment, communication, self-trust, and the patterns that shape how you love—so you can respond from a steadier place instead of repeating what you already know hurts.
Relational Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community
A place for people who are trying to make sense of relationships that left them confused, diminished, or unsure of their own reality. The community offers language, education, and connection for understanding relational patterns, rebuilding self-trust, and finding your way back to yourself without having to do it alone.
For When You Need Words: A Blog
Thoughts on relationships, attachment, conflict, family patterns, healing after emotional harm, and the quiet ways people learn to leave themselves behind. This is a place to slow down, connect a few dots, and find language for what has been hard to name.
Questions people often have before reaching out
You do not need to have the whole story organized, know what kind of therapy you need, or be certain this is the right place before you make contact. A first conversation can help us figure out what makes sense.
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Availability changes, but I am currently speaking with prospective clients. A free 20-minute call is the best way to ask about openings and get a sense of the right starting point. If I do not have a time that works for you, I will be direct about that.
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Individual therapy sessions are 60 minutes and offered on a self-selected sliding scale of $175–$225. My standard fee is $200, and you are welcome to choose the rate within that range that feels financially sustainable for you. No application or financial documentation is required.
Couples and adult-family therapy sessions are 75 minutes and $225 per session. They are intentionally longer so there is enough room for the relationship itself to be part of the conversation without rushing at the end.
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Therapy is currently private pay. If your plan includes out-of-network mental-health benefits, I can provide a monthly superbill upon request. You can also use the optional benefits check at the bottom of the homepage to see an estimate of your out-of-network coverage before you book.
An estimate is not a guarantee of reimbursement; your insurance plan makes the final determination.
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It is a brief, no-pressure conversation to get a sense of whether the work feels like a fit. You can tell me a little about what has been happening, ask about availability or fees, and hear how I might think about what you are carrying. You do not have to decide anything on the call.
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No. A relationship concern can be something you work on alone, with a partner, or with an adult family member. You do not have to have the format figured out first. We can think together about the place that makes the most sense to begin.
Schedule a Conversation
A 20-minute conversation can help you decide if we are a good fit together. If not, I will help you find someone who is.
Get the support you need.
I have partnered with Mentaya to help clients use their out-of-network benefits to save money on therapy. Use this tool below to see if you qualify for reimbursement for my services.